To Text or Not To Text?

Recently, I met a guy that was cooler than cool. I was anxiously waiting for his text or call and then I started thinking whether or not I should be the first to send a message. After doing some investigative research my advice for girls is to WAIT! If he really likes you he will remember you and he will definitely hit you up. Here is a list of other things to do in the meantime while you are anxiously waiting for your Prince Charming to text.

1. Tell each and everyone one of your friends separately the story of how you guys met and what you thought of him. It's like you get to live it all over again, over and over and over and no one friend complains that you are talking about him too much!

2. Do a little research. Sometimes girls (and when I say girls I mean myself) tend to romanticize guys and put them on an unrealistic pedal-stool. If you know some common friends go to his facebook page, see what he's tweeting about. Some people will call this fb stalking but I think its the perfect way see if his interpretation of "keeping it 100" actually means keeping it one zero.

3. You know that line from Biggies song, "what's your age what's your sign"? Yes! See if you guys are astrologically compatible. I am very big on signs and whenever I meet a new guy I find a way to figure out his sign. And I have friends who never thought of using signs as a well to gage people and now they are just as into the whole astrology thing as me.

4. After reading article after article, (believe me there are a bunch of articles) he should finally have texted you. When he does finally break the ice and text you on a few different occasions it's fair game for who texts who text. I mean don't go full throttle after that but one of my guy friends expressed that he and a girl stopped talking and hanging out because she never hit him up first. He liked her and thought of her a lot, but he wanted her to give a little and show some interest too!

Okay ladies, hold tight on the first few text messages, but after that its fair game. And in the meantime of waiting for that first text you have lots of research to do!

always&forever